Thursday, March 26, 2009

Have you ever regretted following your heart?

Nope, not once. I regrett when i don%26#039;t
Have you ever regretted following your heart?
yes, definitely.....
Have you ever regretted following your heart?
Not at all my little friend never leads me astray.
Reply:yes and no
Reply:Of course.





Doing what we desire provides temporary satisfaction or happiness which often means that events are set in motion that we may not have anticipated. Of course, if you knew that things would have turned out the way that they did, then you wouldn%26#039;t have followed your heart. The problem is not knowing how the future will unfold and more specifically, how others will act, react and behave.





As well, when we do what we want, we assume that things will turn out as we wanted to them rather than accepting things as they are.
Reply:Since my heart is in my chest, we move together.
Reply:Nobody ever truly feels regret until they are over 50.


People younger than 50 still think everything is fixable.





Only as you pass middle age do you begin to realized that some things are final, and without the understanding of finality of events can you regret what can no longer be fixed.
Reply:Yes. The heart, emotions can trick the head. But then again, trial and error are great teachers. Mistakes do heal and you become stronger. Sometimes in life- you must take chances, jump into the unknown and have hope that things will work out. Even if it didn%26#039;t exactly work out- you know you have the courage for future times when things will work out.
Reply:On occasion, yes.
Reply:Not when I really listened to it!
Reply:Oh, please don%26#039;t get me started!
Reply:If you mean have I regretted afterwards doing things that I really wanted to do at the time, yes.
Reply:Oh yeah. Every time. I just keep the dam thing shut off now.
Reply:Yes,,, quite a few times,,, but unfortunately its the way i am...
Reply:BRP: I disagree with you. When your child dies, and you lose your heart, a piece of your soul and your reason for living, it is not fixable. And you feel much regret, even if you still have many years (or several =) ) before reaching the age of 50.





My answer to your question, love, is yes, I have greatly regretted following my heart. If I could have prevented one moment of the pain my sweet, beautiful child, with one of the most precious spirits of any person God has ever allowed to live, experienced in her short life of 20 years, I would have never brought her into this world. She was the ultimate example or expression of my following my heart--she was my heart. And now she%26#039;s gone.

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